Becky Hammon partner Brenda Milano is a former basketball coach at St Francis College. Becky has been dating her since 2015. 

Hammon and Milano work as basketball coaches, which might be the common thread that has brought them together. 

In the year they began their relationship, Hammon became the NBA's first female head coach in the Summer League when the Spurs announced she would lead their summer league squad.

She also spent 16 seasons in the Women's National Basketball Association (WNBA), predominantly with the San Antonio Stars and was a six-time WNBA All-Star.

She became the NBA's first full-time female assistant coach in 2014 when she joined the San Antonio Spurs coaching staff.

Hammon was appointed as an assistant coach for the Milwaukee Bucks in 2021.

Her basketball knowledge has been widely lauded, and she has been mentioned as a potential head coach in the NBA.

Brenda Milano Is A Familiar Face In Athletics

Brenda Milano is now a certified personal trainer. Brenda formerly worked as a head women's basketball coach at St Francis College.

Before that, her LinkedIn profile touts her professional career as an assistant WBB coach/recruiting coordinator at Hofstra University.

Also, she worked as a graduate assistant at Seton Hall University from 1996 to 1998. It is, after all, the same university where she received her master's degree in business administration. In addition, Milano holds a bachelor of science degree in marketing from Wagner College. 

Becky and Brenda cuddling Cayden and Samuel in front of the Christmas tree in 2020
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Her Facebook bio describes her as a native of Boonton, New Jersey, currently residing in San Antonio, Texas. 

On the other hand, Milano is a former basketball player who was inducted into the Hall of Fame in her first year of eligibility following a remarkable All-Conference career at Wagner from 1991 to 1995.

Milano graduated with 1,046 points (12th highest at the time) in 84 career games (12.5 ppg) and was in the top ten with 382 assists and 148 steals.

Hammon relishing Valentine's Day with Milano in San Antonio on February 14, 2021
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As a sophomore in 1992-1993, she was named Second Team All-NEC after averaging 13.6 ppg, 5.8 rpg, and 5.3 apg. As a freshman, she earned three NEC Rookie of the Week Awards her way to 10.9 ppg, 5.0 rpg, and 3.8 apg while being selected in the NEC All-Newcomer Team. 

Is Becky Hammon Married?

Becky Hammond and partner Brenda Milano are not married. They have been in a relationship since 2015.

The couple's first picture together was dropped by Hammon on her Instagram page in 2016. 

Hammon and Milano's vacation collage shared on Becky's Instagram page in 2021
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During their seven-year relationship, Becky and Brenda have made a family.

The basketball coach has shared a few details about her relationship on her social media profile, focusing on time and their trip together.

Becky Hammon Children

Becky  Hammon has two kids named Cayden Hammon and Samuel Hammon. They are now living in San Antonio Texas.

The couple had both their sons through adoption and surrogacy. Their first son, Cayden, is seven years old.

He was born in 2015, about the same time Becky and Brenda started dating.

Similarly, their second son, Samuel, was born on May 15, 2018.

On his fourth birthday, Hammons posted a video on Instagram that recalls the things that have happened since his birth.

Cayden and Samuel's picture collage shared by Becky on her Instagram page on National Sons' Day in September 2020
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The first segment of the video shows Samuel in the maternity room, implying that he may have conceived via surrogacy.

Many of her latest Instagram posts focus on her time with her boys and their growth.

Furthermore, Hammon is often away from her home and family due to her professional life.

Thus most of her posts focus on her time with her children and her longing to be with them soon.

In a poignant Instagram post on Monday, Hammon praised working mothers and single parents.

After seeing her children for the first time in a month in 2020, Hammon, who had returned from the NBA bubble, expressed her thoughts on parenting.

More On Becky Hammon Family Life

Becky Hammon parents are Bev Hammon and Martin Hammon. She was born and raised in Rapid City of South Dakota.

Hammon grew up in an athletic family as Martin was a basketball coach. Becky has two older siblings named Matt and Gina. 

Her father, Marty graduated from Steven High School in 1995.

Martin and his wife Bev raised their three children on the 3.5-acre farm in the Black Hills National Forest. It is 12 miles southwest of downtown.

Their property borders US Forest Service land, which has become a playground for their three children.

Growing up, the Hammons enjoyed hunting, fishing, riding three-wheelers through the woods, and wakeboarding on Lake Angostura.

Becky at the 2015 NY Liberty Ring of Honor with Martin and Bev Hammons
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They also spent a lot of time playing basketball on the large concrete slab in front of the residence.

The rim was hung from an overhanging wooden platform above while there were long rebounds, and wayward balls would roll down the slope into the trees, which is why it was better not to miss too often.

Becky was holding a basketball by the time she was a toddler, started dribbling around the time she began walking, and mastered it at five.

Growing up as a basketball-loving girl in Rapid City was difficult since there weren't many other females in Rapid City who were into basketball, per Bleacher Report

Basketball and his family are two things that Marty loves. It is simple to see how the two intertwine, especially in Becky and Matt, who inherited their dad's hoop obsession.